School life is full of adventures that you would find hard to forget too soon. There were the good moments and the bad moments; Fighting with our teachers, sneaking out of class, punishments, homework, visiting days, suspensions, sports, competitions and… the list is endless. In simple words, the school days will always be freshly remembered. They will continue to share the stories with co-workers, friends, spouses, children and possibly grandchildren. We are always proud of what we went through at school.
However, there were some unfortunate attitudes we then exhibited, which occasionally led to meaningless competitions and even fights. Remembering these unpleasant events, the question usually arises: why are people so willing to fight at school? And why does it always have to be girls who fight about “nothing”? Well maybe it’s never really nothing in the first place…
Here are 10 unthinkable reasons why girls fight at school:
1. Jealousy
Girls are damn jealous creatures! In fact, jealousy is known to trigger almost half of all school fights. It starts with the simple things, like one saying the other isn’t as pretty as she makes it out to be. Or Susan could be talking about Mary’s hair that’s out of shape. These things happen and when they do, it’s usually a case of arguments leading to heated fights. I remember how a lot of girls were educated to spank a girl in our school just because she said she was “the prettiest girl in school”. And you know what? She was really beautiful, so the other jealous girls went up in flames! LoL.
2. Show strength and gain popularity
Some people fight just to show their power. And believe me, some girls are real bullies because they discovered that they are strong and can handle any girl that gets in their way. You’ve heard them say so and so about “Don’t I dare, I might tear her to pieces” or in the lines “you mean that thin” so and so “beat you”? Such girls jump at the slightest opportunity to fight and are therefore known and avoided in school.
3. Friend Palaver
Girls develop relationships with people of the opposite sex from a very tender age and are always willing to fight to keep them. As they grow up, relationships of this kind become so meaningful that no other girl should come close to her “man.”
4. She reported me to the teacher
Ha-ha-ha… No schoolgirl likes being reported to the teacher, worst of all by her best friend. Regardless of whether the offense was life-threatening or not, it is far better if the teacher finds out for herself. If you’re the one doing the snitch work, then invite an argument and an ensuing fight.
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5. She disagrees with the rest
Some people are antisocial by nature; You will always stay away from other students and social activities. They always do things on their own and most of these guys are very good in class. But as soon as a group feels that you are not on their side, they will blame you for all their problems. In some schools, they refer to such individuals as “I too Know (ITK)”. They might end up choosing you, becoming your worst enemies and having frequent fights with you.
6. Some learned it from mom and dad
If her parents always fight; She will be fine with doing it too. Some even dared to argue with the boys after seeing their mother do it. In some cases, the parents fight every day and it’s all in front of her eyes, so she will want to do it too.
7. She’s in the wrong company
Girls who are in the wrong company don’t need a reason for a fight. She’s used to seeing her friends fight and is always ready to get involved. These are the type that will easily tease the other, sneer at fellow girls, or even initiate strange shoving. Call her bloodthirsty!
8. Play Turned Sour
Everyone will enjoy this new piece, says an exciting football game. Then you attack painfully and the athleticism is thrown out the window as the two start throwing punches at each other. Sometimes it’s a game where people take turns and when it’s my turn the others find a reason to leave! Ouch that hurts.
9. Friendly fights
Sometimes two girls who are good friends can break out in a fight because of a small disagreement that arises between them. For example, Lucy got a question wrong; Everyone in the class laughed at her answer and so did her best friend Jane. On the way home, the two could easily pick up a serious fight!
10. Aggression
Aggression is not only the cause of most fights in children but in all people. If she used abusive language on you, you would immediately rebuff her. Soon you dare and a fight becomes inevitable. Girls are only girls, if you pull her hair or step on her toes she doesn’t care if it was a coincidence or not, she will want an explanation and sometimes retribution!