CHILDLESSNESS AND SOCIO CULTURAL IMPACT ON MARRIED COUPLES

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CHAPTER ONE

INTRODUCTION

1.1 BACKGROUND TO THE STUDY

In idah urban community, as in most other parts of the country,  procreation is one of the major functions of the family. Every man take a  wife apparently to have children with them, where this main purpose for  marriage is not forth coming into fulfillment, it is then result to tension in  most cases which lead to misunderstanding and disputes in the family. In  traditional igala society, many wives try to ensure the procreation of  children to its fullest limit.

For most of history, childlessness has been regarded as great personal  tragedy involving much emotional pain and grief, especially when it is  resulted from failure to conceive or from the death of a child (Mail,  Charlene, 1986). Before conception was well understood, childlessness was  usually blamed on the woman and this in itself added to the high level  negative emotional and social effects of childlessness. Some wealthy  families also adopted children as a means of providing heirs incase of  childlessness or where no son had been born, the monetary incentives offered by westerners desire for children is so strong that a commercial  market in the child laundering business exists (McCurry, 2005).



1.2 STATEMENT OF PROBLEM

Throughout the world and particularly in African societies, igala land not  exempted, the word “childlessness” sends a cold signal to the ears of  listener and a sense of pity is immediately aroused in the mind. In igala  land, children are regarded as great treasure to their parents, relations and  their immediate community. Many people suffer from childlessness for so  many reasons such as drug abuse, hard drugs effect, contraception,  numerous abortions, and genetically inherited sickness and in most cases,  psychological problems.

The number of childless couples is tremendously on the increase, this is  evident to the fact that attempts to initiate a move which would have been  directed towards adoption is taken with serious resistance in some places  mostly by couples without even a child. Meanwhile, most couples are  childless as a result of the degree of their waywardness while they were youths or younger and unmarried, such as illicit use of drugs in order to  avoid pregnancy (Ugwuanyi, 1999).

In idah urban community, childlessness is echoed by the fact that most  couples are not aware of the prevalence of medical treatment; this  therefore makes them not to seek medical assistance for such form of  ailment. According to Nwapa (2004), some couples attribute their problem  of childlessness to the supernatural, the hope in God that gives children to  remember them at the appropriate time while some couples usually fall  back to the fact that adoption, they are comforted for being biological  infertile, they no longer want to know the cause of their infertility and solve  it or get rid of it Hales, (2000).

According to Dike (2013), the police have smashed a suspected syndicate  whose alleged stock in trade was defrauding desperate barren women  through false miracle babies. He also narrated the agony of a 61year old  barren woman who travel to port Harcourt to consult miracle workers God  was using to bless the barren and make them fruitful, they told her to pay  #1.5 million, she paid the money and was given some seed to eat, after  eating it, she began to stool. It took about nine months before the miracle workers told her that God had answered her prayers, this is the plight of  childless woman.

This study is therefore intended to carry out a survey to find out what  childlessness means and the social problems associated with childlessness  in idah urban community.

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