It is a challenge for single mothers to raise their children in the world we find ourselves in today as nobody wants to scare the boys off because they have children or are interested in maternal responsibilities. They’re always busy, always hurrying, always thinking 15 steps ahead, always caught up in their bad habits—and usually never get to spend an hour or two with their kids. And this contributes to the reason why children of single parents face a big challenge outside of financial problems. Going through life with pain that can limit these children’s opportunities and perspectives to have reason to live. Such children receive little or no parental care because some single mothers are sometimes stressed, because they are not eligible mothers. Because extramarital births don’t bring them into the circles of real married mothers, they return to their basic routines – for better or for worse. In fact, some of them get worse than before pregnancy. Finally, she also has other concerns, forgetting that these children did not ask to be in such a situation. Now these Kenyan single moms have to let it be known that men are fed up with some of their bad habits, including: In fact, some of them get worse than before pregnancy. Finally, she also has other concerns, forgetting that these children did not ask to be in such a situation. Now these Kenyan single moms have to let it be known that men are fed up with some of their bad habits, including: In fact, some of them get worse than before pregnancy. Finally, she also has other concerns, forgetting that these children did not ask to be in such a situation. Now these Kenyan single moms have to let it be known that men are fed up with some of their bad habits, including:
Kenyan single mothers and what Kenyan men hate about them
1. Indecent dressing, which is just their norm
One might think that these ladies become wiser and more mature than the others after entering motherhood. But no, this is exactly the time when skimpy and sexy dresses will be the code. In fact, a few months after baby clubbing becomes a regular routine. They drink the most, party a lot, and are willing to start a romantic relationship with any man who proves he can handle the fact that she already has a baby outside of marriage. And even when their babies (including female children) are grown enough to notice their bad habit, they sneak out at night like a whore in search of fun. Tell me what impression do you make with such innocent girls? Only time will tell what they become.
2. Keep your kids locked away at home so they can party
According to men, they despise single mothers who lock their child up just for late night fun. Yes, some of their habits get that bad. You might start to wonder if their mothers didn’t teach them that children might wake up at odd times in search of their mother’s cuddle or fondle? Okay, imagine how would they flee the scene if there was a fire or some other unplanned event? There are things that people see as valid reasons to take big risks. Are celebrations and debauchery included?
3. Most of them hold men higher than their child
Men say they hate women whose main interest is to please a man by any means necessary. This is because most single moms make men their main concern. They see men as the most urgent thing in the hope that it would make him devote all his time to so-called understanding and maybe make a new father to their children. Young, single mothers chase men to give their children a better future than a girl of the same age but without a child. According to men’s comment, single mothers sacrifice a lot to get a man who accepts the situation they are in. Although none of this is typical of single parents, single Kenyan mothers do it most often.
4. Single mothers are not independent
Kenyan single mothers face financial pressures, yes we know, but it’s not appealing to constantly pass on bills to every man who comes around them. According to men, single Kenyan mothers often include a man in all budgets. Some even ask about guys they don’t actually date to make money, which creates a reason to flirt. They just give the wrong impression that all men around the world should feel sorry for them when their baby daddies abandon them.
5. Always being spiteful towards men
Men revealed that Kenyan single mothers are fond of treating all men as if they were the only man who threw the baby on them. Men confessed how much they hate single mothers across Kenya and saw them as the ones fighting back against the product of their previous relationships. This is no doubt common with Kenyan single mothers, who are often very vocal and are men’s most adamant critics, and in everything that concerns men, they skip the fact that they have dragged themselves into the mess on their own.
6. Men hate the fact that you’re having sex with your kid in the room
There are particular financial constraints on single mothers in Kenya, who often share a bedroom or less with their child, especially for those who have enough money to stay in their own homes. We don’t see anything absolutely wrong with this, but what’s more annoying for men is that some single moms invite their boos and end up having sex while their children are sleeping or the child is placed in a less comfortable position to not be awake up while having sex. If the man close to you is okay with this kind of arrangement, expect him to open the door when you get pregnant again.
7. Leave the child with the mother So you can go out and party
Kenyan men also hate meeting a girl at the club only to find out that she left her child at home with her mother to raise for her. Most men said just the thought made them sick. How could you possibly leave your child with your mother if you were married if you had done that? No matter how busy your schedule, it’s good that you’re raising your own child.